Fear of naked bodies. If you want to talk about open mindedness, take off your clothes. Some wore shoes. I was flirting with this girl for that wo months and had no hocd symptoms but when she moved away it started coming back. Society is more invested in protecting children and young teens from nudity than it is in protecting them from violence. She needs you to last longer. For my part, one of the most important lessons I feel I learned from my parents was that they were separate people from me, with their own lives, interests, dreams, etc. I didn't know what it was at first. Then I concentrate really hard on tying my shoelaces.